Love, Sweet Love: Best Desserts to Try with Your LGBT Partner

What can be sweet, bitter, and seasoned with every spice imaginable? A small hint here: it’s not chocolate... It’s love, of course! People always compare love to sweets because they are similarly diverse and still incredibly tasty. And when mixed together, you get the perfect potion for an unforgettable date.

Who Said Only Kids Like Sweets?

Some people still believe that you must be immature to like desserts, which is nonsense! In fact, we all like sweet food to some extent, and there are historical and developmental reasons behind that. Simple rule: what tastes sweet is edible, and what tastes bitter is inedible or even poisonous. This knowledge has been passed on to the animals over millions of years because only those survived who were shown it by their parents, and thus also the people.

You can often see mature people enjoying desserts, and there’s a scientific reason for that, too. A small piece of chocolate has been proven to be able to boost one’s mood as well as mental abilities. For example, a major part of the LGBT community is crazy about sweets because they help them cope with stress. And the amount of stress that lesbians and gays worldwide receive daily makes desserts an integral part of their lives. So, if you are a lesbian who wants to ask out a mature woman on a date in some coffee shop with mind-blowing desserts but is hesitant about whether she’ll like it, you definitely shouldn’t be!

Figure Out Whether Your Date’s into Desserts

However, even though sweets are a perfect love language that brings lonely hearts together, a little investigation beforehand won’t hurt. Given that dating, for the most part, occurs on the Internet these days, figuring out whether your date is into sweet food won’t be hard. If you use a matchmaking platform for mature lesbian women, you can simply read profiles of other lesbians and see if they mention that they have a sweet tooth. Then, based on that fact, you can use the topic of desserts as an ice-breaker and ask them out. Dating platforms are perfect for seeking like-minded lesbians because they allow you to look for people based on their preferences. If you are currently single and want to meet a mature lesbian who likes desserts and lives in your city, you just use relevant filters, and, voila, a whole bunch of women who match your taste is ready to be discovered! 

Top 3 Desserts to Cook with Your Mature Lesbian Partner

Now, after you have met your perfect lesbian partner, you’ll probably want to invite her to your place after some time. If your first date was as sweet as you planned, why don’t you bring the tasty memories back by cooking some healthy and yummy desserts together? Cooking is proven to bring people closer, and what can be more romantic than treating each other with some homemade food? Here are the top three simple yet delicious dishes lesbians of any age can make in about half an hour.

Vanilla Ice Cream with Oatmeal Crumble on Banana and Blackberries


  • Butter – 75g

  • Cane sugar – 75g

  • Oatmeal, cereal – 60g

  • Wheat flour – 50g

  • Blackberries – 300g

  • Bananas – 2 pcs

  • Honey – 1 tbsp

  • Vanilla ice cream – 300g


1. Preheat the oven to 170°C. Dice butter and knead in a bowl with brown sugar, rolled oats, and flour. Press onto a baking tray lined with baking paper and bake in the oven for approx. 20 minutes until crispy. Leave to cool on the baking sheet, then break into chunks.

2. In the meantime, ask your girlfriend to wash the blackberries and sort them out if necessary. Let her peel the banana and cut it into thin slices. Then mix both in a bowl with honey and oatmeal crumble. Set aside until ready to serve.

3. Divide the banana, blackberries, and oatmeal crumble evenly into bowls. Serve with 2 scoops of vanilla ice cream.

Done! Have fun enjoying your creation, maybe even spoon-feeding each other over a small flirty chat.

Pancakes with Caramelized Berries and Yogurt


  • Eggs – 3 pcs

  • Milk – 200ml

  • Salt

  • Wheat flour – 250 g

  • Blueberries – 150g

  • Blackberries – 150g

  • Sugar – 6 tbsp

  • Orange juice – 100ml

  • Oil – 4 tbsp

  • Natural yogurt – 150g


1. Let your partner mix eggs, milk, and salt in a separate bowl. Sift the flour into the bowl and mix to form a slightly thick batter.

2. While she is busy with mixing, wash the berries and sort them if necessary. Melt the sugar in a pan over medium heat for approx. 2 mins. Deglaze with orange juice and boil until the caramel has dissolved. Add berries, mix and set aside.

3. In a coated pan, heat 1 tablespoon of oil over medium-high, pour 1 ladleful of the batter into the hot oil, and spread thinly in the pan by tilting. Bake the pancakes for approx. 1-2 mins until they are golden brown on each side. Set the pancakes aside and repeat the process until the batter is used up.

4. Serve pancakes with berries and a dollop of yogurt each.

Done! The perk of dating a mature lesbian is that she’s probably already perfect at making pancakes. So, if she is, you can ask her for a lesson on properly making it.

Crunchy Chocolates


  • Whole almonds – 60g

  • Cornflakes – 100 g

  • Bittersweet chocolate – 150g

  • White chocolate – 150g


1. Roast the almonds in a pan on medium heat for approx. 3 minutes. Mix in a bowl with cornflakes.

2. Meanwhile, let your partner boil approx. 500 ml of water in a saucepan and melt each chocolate in a bowl over hot water.

3. Carefully fold half of the cornflakes mixture into the chocolate. Use two teaspoons to place small heaps of the mixture on baking paper, pushing together if necessary. Allow to dry and keep the crispy chocolates in the fridge.

Done! Quick, delicious, and can be prepared by anyone, no matter their cooking skills. This snack is perfect for a movie night, so don’t hesitate to try it!